- šLifeLemons
- Posts
- š I'm Tired of Making This Decision
š I'm Tired of Making This Decision
This is issue #107 of LifeLemons. š You can view the rest here.
I used to think that being open-minded was always better than closing yourself off from new ideas and viewpoints, until now.
I second guess myself a lot.
For example, when it comes to creative strategy on Youtube, one day Iāll prefer a certain type of thumbnail for my videos, the next Iāll convince myself that I should opt for another style.
Each time, I truly believe that Iām right, that Iām making a smarter, more informed decision.
The issue is that todayās mind will always continue to second guess yesterdayās mind, and therefore sabotage tomorrowās results.
No one decision of mine in this situation is technically correct, there are no correct answers.
However, there is a clear, identifiable downside to the āopen-mindednessā that I exercise here.
Itās that, no matter how long I spend making a decision today, Iāll probably spend time on that same decision tomorrow, and the day after that, ultimately creating decision fatigue.
In Psychology, decision fatigue is the idea that the more decisions you make in the day, the lower the quality decisions become later on.
Notably, in my case, I was getting fatigued from re-making the same decision again and again. Not only does that become tiring, but it also leads to poorer outcomes.
Every time I change āstrategiesā, I sacrifice consistency and therefore results. So, Iāve been trying to be stricter with myself by sticking to old decisions. By holding myself accountable for past decisions, Iām attempting to save time for my future self.
In other words, Iām trying to be selectively close-minded on decisions Iāve already spent time on so I can be more focused on those I havenāt.
Being open-minded is almost always the best option unless youāre dead confident that youāve found the right answer. Then, close it off.
Have a great week,
Faisal.
š Are You Enjoying This Newsletter?
Hit and leave a š emoji if you read this far, it's nice to notice my regular readers!
Alternatively, tell me how to improve or share your thoughts with me. I'd appreciate it just as much!
š Quote of The Week
āIt is by logic that we prove, but by intuition that we discover.ā
ā Henri PoincarĆ©
Iām creating a series of meaningful video projects on Youtube (self-improvement, philosophy, productivity, intentional living etc.)
Theyāre short, packed with value and always getting better.
š Join 2280+ Subscribers on Youtube by subscribing here.
š¤ About Me
I'm Faisal, a Doctor working in the NHS who writes online and makes Youtube videos on self-development, intentional living and doing the things that matter.
I love writing, storytelling, filmmaking, entrepreneurship and innovating in medical education spaces. If you'd like to go down the rabbit hole and find out more about me, the links below are a good place to start:
Links: Gear | Book Recommendations | Book Notes | Skillshare Classes |My SFP Book | CST Interview Course
Disclaimer: I use affiliate links in this newsletter (always honest recommendations). They give me a small kickback with no extra cost to you.