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Why You Need to Learn New Skills
When I was 10 years old, Iād learn anything new youād put in front of me.
Skateboarding? Iāll try it.
Rubix cube? Hand it over.
Table tennis? Letās have a game!
Social media wasnāt really a thing back then. There was no one to impress but myself and my parents.
Then, I grew a little older.
I passed through secondary school and eventually started university.
Thatās when things got a littleā¦ stale.
Grow Old, Do Less.
As you grow older, society expects you to have a direction.
Time to decide is up, better choose something quick!
Not because itās good for you, but because it helps us know what box to put you in.
And if you know your direction, nothing special about that, unfortunately!
But if you donāt, youāre a misfit.
Thereās a lot of stigma around trying new things; society sees it as āhe/she doesnāt have things figured out yet.ā
Society wants you to specialise, not remain undecided.
You become exposed to more, but you engage with less.
Inevitably, you hesitate to learn new things.
Growth is Uncomfortable
To learn something new, you have to start from scratch.
That would make you a humble beginnerāāānot everyone can accept that.
And why would they! People would see you and judge you, right?
Maybe, and maybe not.
You probably wouldnāt worry about what people think of you if you could know how seldom they do! ā Olin Miller
A growth mindset comes hand-in-hand with the ability to dance with the fear of discomfort.
Most people can only stomach discomfort for short periods of time.
As we grow older, we feel entitled to drift through life without needing to endure this feeling again.
Weāve done our time; things should be easy from here on out, no?
By avoiding discomfort, we avoid growth.
Learning New Skills Makes You Feel Younger
Learning a new skill invites a flurry of new emotions and transformation.
Ignoring the bursts of dopamine you might be rewarded with, learning something new places you in a unique position:
As a beginner, you identify an unfilled space you have the potential to grow into.
As a beginner, you get to envision the changes that might come about to you, just as they have done to others.
As a beginner, you expand your world view and get closer to finding your real tribe.
Your world opens up.
So stomach the discomfort and ignore societyās expectations of you to have all the answers.
I feel 10 years old again.
And I think you should join me.
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