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Rules and Routines - Why You're No Good Without Them
Two weeks ago, I had to self-isolate for a week over some mild symptoms.
Just prior to this, Iâd been working on some exciting ideas and making good progress in my free time after work.
Thankfully, my symptoms improved after a couple of days and I thought to myself, âGreat! I can use the rest of this period to get ahead on that projectâ.
Instead, I found the following days waking up at 11 am, spending hours on Youtube in my PJs, planting myself into a corner of my garden (wonât apologise for this) and finishing the day watching 3+ hours of Money Heist on Netflix.
It brought some thoughts on productivity and routine back to the forefront of my mind, and if youâre anything like the average person, you might relate to this too.
Why We Need Routine
Blessed with several days of uninterrupted isolation in my room, the loss of a fixed routine highlighted the true extent of my uselessness.
I hate to admit it, but without the routine, I was a disorganised mess.
Conversely then, a âroutineâ must have been doing a lot of the work for me!
More importantly, letâs talk about the routines that we donât much of a say in. For example, our jobs. Yes, we choose them ourselves, but we (for the most part) donât get a say in the hours we work, where we have to do that work and when we can take allocated breaks. Letâs call this an âexternal routineâ, one thatâs imposed on us and difficult to escape without some consequences.
On my days of isolation, if I managed to wake up at 7am, get some solid work done before 5pm, eat at allocated times and enjoy my evening before a sensible bed-time, it would only have been due to an internal drive to ensure good routine. Letâs call this an âinternal routineâ, one we impose on ourselves with the help of productive habitual behaviour and commendable self-control (Iâm still working on that).
âWork expands so as to fill the time available for its completionâ â Parkinsonâs law
Now, a routine does two important things:
Allocate time. Allocating different periods of the day to certain tasks trains the brain to identify that it wonât have any other time to do it, meaning itâll quickly switch into the right gear when itâs time to.When I get home from work, I know I wonât get the chance to work on my side-projects until the same time next day, which gives me the kick I need to get things done, there and then.
Reduce time per activity. Instead of spreading out tasks over a whole day, giving yourself a smaller amount of time to do so creates a sense of urgency and scarcity of time.If youâve ever had 5% battery left on your phone to get something done (and no charger), that was probably the most productive youâve ever been on that phone!
Whatâs strange is that I was getting more work done in my evenings post-work than I was in a whole day of isolated freedom.
Given that Iâm not lucky enough to have any free time to work on side-projects during my work shifts, despite âlosingâ 9â13 hours of my day at work (where I donât have any free time to work on these side-projects) I was still getting more work done!
Thatâs the power of routine.
Setting Rules To Get Things Done
Over the last few years, Iâve discovered something about myself which has helped me get more things done, and itâs helped some of the biggest productivity wizards tooâŚ
I canât trust myself.
I canât trust myself to ignore my phone when itâs within arms reach.I canât trust myself to ignore emails when a new notification just came in.I canât trust myself to finish my essay when Youtube is just one click away.
Iâd think to myself, âwhy do people have all these rules and hacks for getting things done, canât they just do it if itâs that important to them? Perhaps theyâre weak-minded. That could never be me, just watch!â
Although Iâd still like to believe that I can eventually develop the self-constraint to stick with the important and ignore the distracting on-command, Iâve come to accept that I fail. A lot.
The truth is, creating rules and âhacksâ that allow us to be more productive work so well because they trick us. And we have to be tricked, because we canât be trusted.
The best way to demonstrate this is to provide some context through common examples:
Hiding our phones from ourselves whilst working.This works because weâre too weak to resist picking up our phones if it's nearby. By throwing it to the other corner of the room, we tell ourselves, âI know you want the phone to be easily accessible, but you canât have itâ.
Having a âworkâ area and a âchillâ area.Some people commit their desk to be solely used for productive work. When they want to watch videos or do some online shopping, they might sit on their bed or a sofa, training their brains to associate sitting at the desk with getting important work done.This is our way of telling our brains âYou think youâve got enough self-control to do both activities at the desk appropriately, but you canât, so I have to condition you. Desk = Work. Bed = Chill.â
Although we may not realise it, some of our most productive work sessions have been influenced by some sort of rules/regulations weâve imposed on ourselves, knowingly or unknowingly.
My personal favourite has been occasionally leaving my (previous) laptop charger behind whilst working away from home. Knowing this, I had imposed a self-inflicted time-bomb of 5 hours before my laptop would die.
This way, Iâd removed the opportunity to procrastinate and restricted myself to just 5 hours at any coffee shop or workspace, leaving the rest of my day open to my other plans.
During medical school, I began to listen to classical music whilst revising (thanks Ludovico Einaudi), a genre I wouldnât usually listen to for any other situation. Before I knew it, playing classical music would almost instantly put me in working mode.
Iâd unknowingly conditioned my brain to associate classical music with studying!
Allow Yourself To Be Told What To Do
Hereâs the crux of this article: Sometimes we have to impose rules and routine on ourselves in order to get things done.
The eureka moment comes after the realisation that despite wanting to be super-efficient on our own, weâre actually pretty useless if we depend on our own âinternalâ routines.
Therefore, by holding ourselves accountable publicly, socially and financially, we bypass the need for possessing the necessary self-motivation.
If youâve identified that something needs to be done, consider creating some âexternalâ rules and routines that are difficult to break.
For example, if youâd like to only spend a portion of your day checking email, you could restrict your email applications to only refresh at certain times of the day, or, you could even set an autoresponder to inform people that youâll only be replying at said time of day.
The first method prevents us from seeing constant notifications of incoming mail. The second method ensures that you donât feel anxious about not-replying promptly, considering that everyone whoâs emailed you has been made aware that youâll be replying later on.
Social accountability is incredibly powerful, too.
If I missed this weekly newsletter, people may think Iâm a failure who couldnât keep up a newsletter for more than 10 weeks (yes, Iâve surprised myself too đ).
Thatâs part of why I advertise this as a weekly newsletter. If I didnât, I wouldn't feel guilty about missing a week, a month, perhaps even giving up entirely. Iâve created an âexternalâ routine, one that relies on social accountability to keep me going.
The most âproductiveâ and âdisciplinedâ people we aspire to emulate arenât as self-reliant as we think. Theyâve simply identified early on that theyâre incapable of becoming productivity machines without external influences.
Look carefully at their average day, and youâll notice widespread use of psychological productivity âhacksâ, social accountability and âexternalâ routines that regulate their actions and behaviours.
Sometimes, we have to seek external motivations. It might be the only thing that helps us get it done.
đ¤ŠP.S: About those exciting new projects I mentioned at the start, it may or may not be something to do with this link (Go on⌠click it).
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đ¨đ˝ââď¸Faisal is a Junior Doctor working in the NHS and the founder of YoungAcademics.
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